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writes: I recently met a man from an online datesite, we hit it off great and married within 2 months. He was from a northern state and I lived in a southern state, we decided it was best he moved here rather than me move there, so now we are living with my daughter trying to get a job to get our own place, the problem is i see he has a problem with women, if a waitress is overly friendly and asks him if he wants to take home extra dessert he will say sure i'd take 2 to go. also everytime when we are out and about if a girl walks in front of him he's looking at her from head to toe ...and if i say something about the disrespect he says i didnt notice i was doing that...my question is how do i let this annoying flaw stop getting the best of me other than that flaw he's the first man that i can honestly say i love and we are both on our third marriages..please help!
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (26 May 2006):
 I really wouldnt worry about this too much. Its normal for a guy to look at other woman and some do just do it out of habit nothing else, and as he said to you he didnt even realise he was doing it. As for chatting to the waitress, in that way, thats just friendly, where the harm.. I think you are reading too much into hun. Hes with you he loves you, but its only natural for men to look at other women, in an ideal world we would lock them up so they cant see prettier slimmer women and only look at us! but life isnt like that, and the odd roving eye or the odd little chat out of politeness isnt going to hurt. Stop worrying about it, the more you drag attention to it the more you will notice it and its probably not as big a problem as you realise!
Take care x
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