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writes:Hi guys. I wonder if you could PLEASE help me. My Boyfriend and I get on really well up until recently. I feel like hes giving me the cold shoulder. He doesnt text as much or talk much on MSN and when he does he doesnt say very much. All he keeps saying over and over is that he Loves me and sends loads of Kisses. Is He doing this just to keep me happy or is he feeling guilty about something or hiding something?I love him so much but i hate the way this feels.Please help x x x
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reader, rhythmandblues2  + ♥, writes (26 November 2006):
 Try using a more direct form of conversation like phone calls or personal meetings....I personally hate relying on text messages to gauge the status quo of any relationship.
90% of communication is in our tone of voice, facial expressions and body language, you can't see that when you are reading texts, and I think guys are sometimes afraid to talk on the phone or text or instant message because they know that they only have words to use, and they can't flirt or use their eyes or touch or anything like that to let you know how they feel about you.
Cut down on the texting and tell him you prefer to actually talk to him one on one, face to face and up close and personal....Technology has become a habit that I think young people need to break and use only occassionally.
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