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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I recently hit it off with this guy through email. We are old coworkers who reconnected, but haven't seen each other in several years. I noticed as time went on, he kept asking more personal questions, and even brought up the topics of marriage and children and what I thought about them. It was clear he was evaluating my responses. He agreed we had a lot in common. He also hinted many times that we should hangout, but nothing ever came of it. Still, it was obvious we were interested in each other and we spent hours talking.Then a few days ago he asked me if I had ever used dating sites, and then told me he had joined one to find a girlfriend. I am really confused now and kind of hurt. Was he leading me on?
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reader, bittersweetchicka  +, writes (10 May 2016):
I would just ask to go out as friends.. See if there are any connections or sparks..
To early to tell why he would say that... However, kinda needy- so I hope it's test.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (6 April 2016):
 I think it depends on a few things, like how long have you two been "pen-pals" ?
I think if you were BOTH interested in something more, there would have been a plan to meet up for a dinner or something?
Hanging out, sounds more like something you do with a friend, then something you do with a date.
I don't think he is as interested as you are, or maybe the dating site question was a "test" to see how you react (which I might add if it IS a test that is pretty pathetic).
If you two live no where near each other maybe consider that it is a better option to find a BF in your local vicinity.
I'd wish him luck on his dating site adventure and leave it at that. Any more back and forth seems like a "waste" unless... you want a pen-pal.
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