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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi I am 25 years old and there this woman I like but she's married with three kids. Her husband okay with her seeing other women and I have asked her how long shes be in a relationship with a woman and she said to me a few months and that she's been with three women. I am not sure what to do, I like to meet her and just go for it but I know it's wrong can anyone help? Reply to this Question
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reader, Wild Thaing  +, writes (28 June 2007):
 So if you know it's wrong then what motivates you to continue to consider the possibility of a relationship with a woman who is taken? Tell us what you think about the advice of your inner voice.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (28 June 2007):
 Personally i think that even though she says her husband is ok with it you should not be.
Marriage is a commitment between two people and no one should stand in the way of that.
I would stay clear and find someone that is 100% available.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2007): You need to look inside yourself and ask what marriage means to you. It does not matter whether or not her husband is "okay" with her seeing other women, it matters how you see marriage. Marriage is a commitment between two people and if anything happens between you and this women, you are involved in breaking that promise and those vows. Are you OK with that? If you have any reservation, it would probably be better to not go and meet her. There are PLENTY of available people out there, so why pursue one that is very much not available to you.
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