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Her hot temper leads to fights. So I asked another girl out. Can I continue like this or should I just walk away from my hot tempered original Gf?

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Question - (19 August 2015) 5 Answers - (Newest, 19 August 2015)
A male Nigeria age 26-29, *Benny tolex writes:

I am a teenage guy of 18 , currently I have a gf we have been together For over a year now.

She's got all I want, but she has hot temper.

We fight a lot of times and this make me think about our future.

I decided to ask another girl out, the same week that girl and I had sex.

And if my gf got to knew hell will break loose.

I don't know what to do. Please I need advice.

Can I continue cheating on my Gf, because of her temper, or should I just walk away, because of her temper?

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A male reader, Benny tolex Nigeria +, writes (19 August 2015):

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 Benny tolex agony auntThanks guy I have to break up right? You guys changed my mind. I should break up, its not that easy. She may hurt me. I don't want to make mistakes

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2015):

I agree.

A long saying goes: If you like the first one why did you go for the second? So it's better to go for the second one then, for then you don't truly like the first.

It'll be better for both of you if leave your gf, because if her temper makes you react to it like this and you're already rethinking your future with her... what's the use then?

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A male reader, Garbo United States +, writes (19 August 2015):

Garbo agony auntDon't ever cheat. If the other girl is better, then break a deal with the hot tempered one, tell her that you cannot take her temper tantrums and you no longer want to be her victim. Then move on. You cannot have two women at the same time because it does not work that way. If you are too intimidate or fearful of the hot tempered on, then break up via text or email or a letter. As you have found out with the hot tempered girl, not everything a man wants is in her looks.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (19 August 2015):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI agree using her temper as an excuse to cheat is not cool.

You should end it with her and move on.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2015):

Her temper is not an excuse to make you feel it was ok to cheat. My boyfriend does something similar to this. About 2/3 times in our relationship (not cheat) but runs away when things get bad. Cowardly. But doesn't have the guts to run away completely

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