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Her ex wants her back -- do I walk away?

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Question - (28 February 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 March 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I really think I know the answer to this but I needed to be reassured. I have been seeing this girl for close to a month now and everything has been going great. We hang out, or go out to dinner 2-3 times a week. We both have a great time when we are together and we talk/text quite often as well, and it is usually initiated by her. She was sick last night and our plans got cancelled. I got a text from her early this morning saying that she can't talk to me anymore because of her ex. Now I knew there was an ex, but from what I understood he cheated on her and that's why they broke up, now apparantly he's telling her to stop talking to me because he wants her back. She says she's confused and needs time. My brain tells me to walk away, my heart tells me otherwise. What should I do?????

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010):

I think maybe I should give her till the end of the week to make a decision...If I don't hear from her forget about it, I think thats a fair decision maybe????? Anyone else have any input??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2010):

Yes. Give her space. If it is meant to be after she gets back with her ex.; then it will be. Right now she still loves him.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (28 February 2010):

Follow your brain on this one. If she is unsure of how she feels, it means that she's not into you as much as she should be. If she wants her cheating ex, fine. You move on and find a woman who is more secure in herself.

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