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writes:Do my girlfriend recently split up with me because her dad wasn't happy about her seeing me, he threatened to throw her out. Now she acts like she doesn't love or even care anymore and says its because she is tryin to get used to it yet it's only been a day. She won't let me speak to her dad because she says it will make things worse. So do I just go and talk to her dad anyway, what more have I got to lose?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I sent a message to her dad, he never replied and just had a go at her. So what do I do now.
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reader, dougbcoll  +, writes (6 June 2012):
 you have nothing to lose by talking to her dad and telling him how you feel toward his daughter.
but be honest and truthful to him.
you have a girl friend to lose if you don't , correct.
if you two don't want to be apart go talk to him.
listen to what he has to say also. don't let it get to a heat talk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2012): Unless your ex girlfriend is a minor or you're a total a^^^^ê then I don't see what right it is of her fathers to decide who she sees and doesn't see. Perhaps she wasn't as into you as you thought? Because if she was she would have told her father she's an adult and to keep out of it. As it is, it sounds like she's in full agreement with him ... You probably haven't got anything to lose by speaking to him, but I doubt you have anything to gain by it either so it may not be worth the effort.
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