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*loveher321
writes:I cheated on her while on drugs and drunk (which is no excuse, i know) but what happened happened. I love her so much and after it happened she saw that I had asked the girl if she was clean on myspace message and asked if I did anythign with her I said no at first but then pulled over and told her because I couldn't keep lying saying no. We both cried and were together for 2 months after this.I apologized and was depressed for a month over it because I had messed things up with the girl I love.Now after all this she started being mean to me saying all sorts of mean things like I'd rather die than spend another day with you.This was a week ago and the other day she sends me a friend request on myspace, i accept it and dont like what I see, so i send a message saying "I cant look at this crap, bye baby"She aol i/m's me saying "what cant you look at?"I dont respond to that but then we start up with another argument she ends up just talking more crap and I said "You have talked enough shit, it started when you said i'de rather die than spend another day with you and she replied "Omg, that was weeks ago"I sign off.I dont know what to do or say now. I think/hope she still really loves me deep down and is just trying to get over things by kissing and spending time with this new guy, who btw was an old friend of mine. People tell me I should just give her time because there is a long time before she gets out of highschool and goes off to college.All I want is another chance to show her how much I really care for her. Our relationship was great and we both really cared for eachother, we were going to move away together to wherever she went away to college.
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reader, wayblonde6 +, writes (14 November 2008):
She is really hurt right now I think she still wants u in her life cause she still is trying to talk even though its rude its her way of takeing out her frusterations.
It will take time for her to heal but I mean the only thing u can do is tell her how much she means to you. You have to put your heart out on the line. If its meant to be it will happen. But if she is still in HS I mean its hard to tell she might be trying to get over you thinking to herself there are better guys out there. I think u just need to show her. The other guy is prob just a rebound type of thing.
I hope you 2 can work stuff out good luckk
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