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51-59,
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writes:hi i am a 40yrs married woman i had a bad marital life as a result i tried to emotinally depend on my parents for help they always gave me the rough shoulder inspite of that i tried to help them whenever they needed me i would go to any extent to help them and try to make them comfortable i was never reciprocated even in feelings it made me feel more frustrated but i did my best last year mom died during that period when the property was distributed i told dad that i needed help as my condition was not good and i should be given something so that i could sustain myself ,things became worse forget getting anything everybodys behaviour changed for the worse my brothers started abusing me i was even slaped by brother on a very flimsy reason dad supported my brother and even complained to my husband that i was creating trouble there now dad is in his last stage of life the abuses have not stopped on the pretext of giving me mothers gold he want to kill whatever little self confidence is left he wants to behave like a servant to my brothers and their wives i.e he wants me rub my nose on their feet. all these years i have fought all alone as long as mother was there at least i was not illtreated ihave not depended on them financial but now i dont know what to do bear the abuses and get the gold or just say goodbye pl advice i dont like being treated cheaply all these at least i had my self respect
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (12 March 2011):
 I think you already know that the gold is not worth your self respect and your sanity. Get out and let your brother care for the old man.
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reader, welsh +, writes (12 March 2011):
Do you work or are you dependent financially on your brothers for survival? The 2005 amendment in the Hindu Succession Act, 1956 has giving equal right to daughters as the sons to claim share in the Ancestral Hindu Family property. So if you want, you can fight this legally without having to sustain abuse.
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