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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Could someone please help me with me current situation with my girlfriend!? We've been going out for almost 3 months and everything has been going great! Until now! Recently she has suddenly stopped sending as many messages to me and when she does, they seem to only be one word answers, or sometimes even abbreviations! On facebook, she said wanted someone to leave her alone! Now I'm wondering if it's me she's talking about! Her friend then commented assuming it was something that she had told her over msn and was correct! However, when i asked her what was up, she said that she would rather not discuss it! What?? You'll tell you're friends, but not your boyfriend? And help on how to get her to open up to me a little more would be much appreciated! :)
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reader, romany +, writes (6 July 2010):
 I'm 42 and i still tell my friend more than i've ever told any bloke.Your 3 months into a relationship, things always do settle down, like texting and calling, how is she when she is with you? is it all pretty normal and relaxed, are you reading her completely wrong.The only way your gonna get it cleared up is to talk to her, take her to a cafe one lunch time and have a chat, tell her your kinda feeling a bit paranoid, and concerned she is getting fed of you, it can either go one of two ways, and at the end of it you'll not be this confused anymore.Goodluck i hope it goes your way.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 What did she say when you asked her face to face?
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reader, MissKin +, writes (6 July 2010):
 1) Abbreviations if abnormal are not really a good sign
2) i often (As a girl :P ) tell my friends things i wouldn't dream of telling my boyfriend, especially things im upset about.
3) my boyfriend gets the harsh end of all my mood swings (will texteveryone with kisses but him, and he didn't do anything.)
4) You just need to talk to her! And if she won't give up any information but im sorry hunny, just stop chasing her, let her come to u but tell her ur there for her when she's ready. u are not a puppy!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010): You need to sit down with her and talk. Ask her if anything's wrong and tell her how you feel. Tell her that you feel neglected and feel that you guys are drifting away. Get to the bottom of the situation. A good relation needs communication. Without communication it's pretty much nothing.
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