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Help me sort out my crushes!

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Question - (3 June 2014) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2014)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I like this boy and he likes me back but we have decided just to be friends so we don't ruin our friendship. The thing is I kinda want more than that but I'd not know how to tell him!! Then he has this mate who is like a brother to me who I use to fancy but he turned me down but I kinda have a few feelings still for him I think!! Some of my friends say he likes me but I don't know but something has changed and I don't know what it is!! So please help what should I do??:-(

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2014):

Thank you both of u WiseOwlE and CMMP for ur advice it turns out the one I thought was my brother is a total idot and is just using me to tell him gossip about my life!! He just uses people and know we have had a massive argument and he has made a new girl whos his best friend!!!

I'm still thinking about my other crush who likes me as he is being really nice to me at the moment and he is very caring but we will see!! I suppose I am young and there is plenty more out there!!

Thank you for ur time and effort to answer my question :-)

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (4 June 2014):

I think that you should look elsewhere. Both of these guys seem to be more interested in friendship than anything romantic.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2014):

You're only thirteen; so you have may need to be a little older to understand your crushes, and why they are so confused. Between ages 13 and 15, your crushes can change by the week, and the number can grow by the day. That's why it's so confusing.

You give up on boys that don't feel the same way for you, as you feel for them. That's wasting your feelings and your time.

You just started to be interested in boys; and you're really too young to sort it out. You have to pretty much figure it out for yourself. When you have, that means you're old enough.

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