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Help me, I'm being used!

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Question - (27 February 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 February 2008)
A female New Zealand age 30-35, *issmarie writes:

hi ok im 18 i know thats young, but anyway, theres this guy, lets call him (geoff) um well geoff and i go way bak. our dads worked together and we wer good friends. then he moved, hes 3 years older than me, but i hadnt seen him in ages. i usd to have a crush on him when we wer kids then i met him again just over a year ago and we slept together. next thing i know im in love. i put up with him being horible dissing me, never takn me out or telln ppl we not dating. but wen he asks 4 anything, i cant say no. ivtryd ignoring him but i just dont no wat 2 do anymore. the fact is its ruining my chances of a real relationship cos i want him but he doesnt want me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008):

You deserve better so stop being such a bloody doormat to this idiot. He doesnt realise what a lovely person he has with you, so get rid of him and move on. Life is much too short and you will look back on wasted years with regret. Walk now before it is too late.

take care

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (27 February 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntYou are either a smart and intelligent woman or a born loser.

Choose who do you want to be.Do you want to be a born loser?

God help you if you want to let people walk all over you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008):

You need to get as far away from this loser as possbile girl. He's only using you for what he can get. He obviously doesn't care for you in the same way that you care for him and will use that to his own advantage.

Change your cell number in order for him not to contact you. Make new friends and tell only the ones you trust the most about him so they can help you stay strong and stay away from this guy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008):

Hi Hunny

You need to stay away and I mean away! Dont let anyone treat you this way ever...You have to be strong and not let this person control you hunny, You are in control no matter what you think im sending you a link on self esteem hunny as you need to feel strong to deal with this read it and get this man out of your life hunny and move on a stronger young woman

http://www.selfesteem4women.com/index.php

If you need anything hunny message me TAKE CARE LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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