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bellalicious
writes:I'm 14 and i have a crush on this 15 yr old guy. he always looks at me when we walk pass or when i'm around but i pretended not to notice him. then as weeks past, he looked at me lesser and lesser till it's like he doesn't even care about me anymore! then i started hinting him by looking at him when he's around. when i tend to ignore him,he tries to get my attention by talking to the person i was talking to or when he walks pass me,he would pretend to be looking for someone.. sometimes,his facial expressions deceives him too..it/s like "he wants to look at me but he's afraid" so he will look around me but not at me..and whenever he sees me, recently,he'll put his head on the table and when he sees my friend which i'm always with,he'll be shock!i've seen him looking at me twice like OBSERVING me!i pretended i didn't notice.most of the time he was trying to "act natural" it was obvious that i did that too..do u think he likes me? please help me! thank you very very much (:
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reader, growing  +, writes (11 May 2008):
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reader, bellalicious +, writes (11 May 2008):
bellalicious is verified as being by the original poster of the question hmmm.. THANKS SO MUCH GUYS FOR YOUR ANSWERS :DDD
thank you very much! (:
sassymouse-sorry i forgot to mention, my friend did the observing (: he probaly didn't realise as everytime he looks at me, he looks only at me and no other poeple or he's too busy "looking for someone" or "acting natural" so he don't realise anything :P hehe thnaks soo much for replying :D
growing-yup okay thanks! :D your advice is great and of cos, i am tihnking of trying that out :P thank you (:
skeez-well, okay thanks very much! XD ya, okay.. your advice is great! thnaks lots :DD
loulee- thanks for answering and your advice was helpful :DD thank you (:
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reader, LouLee  +, writes (11 May 2008):
 Basically you are both flirting with your eyes, you should try talking to him, if you think he's trying NOT to look at you, just say hey and he won't feel so uncomfortable or shy. =)
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reader, Skeez + ♥, writes (10 May 2008):
 hello lovey.
yes it does sound as though this boy does like you.
But...the problem is...why is he now avoiding you and not lookng at you anymore?
From what you have told me, its becuase you have been ignoring him, and pretending you dont notice him looking at you. It sounds as though this boy has kind of stepped back away from all of this becuase you dont respond to him, and he may feel as though he will never be able to talk to you, so he may feel whats the point in carrying on.
You like him and it sounds as though he likes you, why dont you talk to him, or when your in class with him next (if you have a class with him) ask him for a pencil that you can borrow, or if you notice him look at you, stick your tongue out playfully at him.
I do that to every single person I see looking at me. Im a naturally shy girl, and just sticking my tongue out at them in a funny way is so much easier for me than actually going up to talk to them. After a while you two will start talking and saying hello to each other in the corridors.
If you want to make something out of all this, dont ignore the boy.
goodluck
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reader, growing +, writes (10 May 2008):
If am free to express thoughts going in my mind after readin your question then....
Why you come us with such "not to ask from others" type question.
I have been writing that the best way at this age and in similar type of situation,is to face your crush and tell him how you feel about him.
Giving you all the wierd answers or just saying that yes he is surely droping signs or he is just being himself,would not satisfy you.
Would that????
I know,it won't;so why don't you just flaunt that bold attitude with perfect shyness on your face.
In many cases though guy is not involved but just the way gal ask that question,makes them crazy.
So go ahead and think about that perfect timing.
best of luck!
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reader, sassymouse +, writes (10 May 2008):
 Yes and no. If you're not reading too much into what he's doing then it sounds as if he does like you. BUT be careful- you sound as if you're observing him a lot too! And maybe he's simply aware of this! Try and talk to him - see if you guys get along well and take it from there! good luck x
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