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writes:Pleeeease help me, what should I do? I really like this guy who has a girlfriend who is giving him sex, and I've totally backed out of the picture but he keeps trying to draw me back in. He seems to need my attention by flirting with me which includes touching, smiling, lengthy eye contact, and he does things to make me believe that he likes me, like parking his car right next to mine at work when there are other parking spaces from which to choose. I feel like putting a note on his car but don't know what to say. I don't want him while he's with her. Please help me either get him away from her or back him off completely from me.
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reader, Artistry +, writes (23 January 2009):
 Hi there, What I would like you to do, is to consider the fact that you could be the girl he is involved with sexually and otherwise. So here he is flirting, trying to seduce you possibly, what does this say about him? Do you think this would be the only time that he would do this? Would you want someone who behaves like this? Can he be true to one woman at a time, it does not seem to be the case. He likes variety as a lot of guys do, but do you want to be his woman on the side, and what kind of relationship would you have with him, I would not be able to trust him, if it were me he flirts with. Close the door on his attentions, steel yourself, he would not be a good choice, if you really assessed it. Don't let his attention blind you, we as humans love being stroked, but the bigger picture is what should be important. His character is a bit suspect. There will be others who you are attracted to, who will be more faithful to you, who will be more attentive to you and not other ladies who they find attractive. Think about it and move on please. Take care, stay in touch.
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