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writes: Hi unts and uncles I have 3 questions. [Mod note: 2 questions were combined here]1..my husbands likes oral sex the most.Every time we meet he pull it out and ask to rub and grab the ass..pull the ass and a hand job.he also likes to rub his testicals.As foreplay he kiss and hug or nothing.He gives me blow job when he wants to arouse not for to please me..He often have orgasm before me then he becomes sad and dull but doesn,t give me finger..How should I communicate about it and what should I do to overcome.?My 2 question is that my hubby is living at distance.often he goes for busines.Often he shows his love through sexual talk than emmotional.He doesn,t talk how he emotionaly feel.how to praise my beauty,heart,character and personality..Is it ok?Plz I need more suggestions and help.Thanks in advance.Third question. my hubby of 7 years shows his love through sex...we have been having sex when he was having an emotional affair with a co.worker..from 3 years.Now he has broken from 5 moths.Then sex was just an act or tension release.But now he makes love with happines.our communication is good. We spent time together...but I feel he is trying to love me but he is not emotionaly, attach to me.He does appriate my beauty,heart ,character and personality.Whenever he goes at busines trip,he daily cals me,buy gifts for me and make planings for fun..but I want romance,i don,t know what is missing?where is our relation?how to improve it?Or how can we get that spark again.Ply I am looking for more suggestions
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2012): Thanks to everyone specaily LIBARTY. S.
He say.: I. loves you how can you say that i doesn,t love u.
He paid his duties.he loves me but stil I feel. EmotionalY disconected.
But how can tell these are my feelings.
It can be due to he doesn,t love me as I want.
Or I feel disconected because I compair his action with his affair love.
Plz reply must.specaily agony aunts,uncles and dear cupid.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi every one!may be I can,t explain myself as me should...i love him too much.and want to improve our romantic life.he had an affair but he is not this type of guy.his friendship has gone to this point.even he has no single girl friend.he says he is sorry and ashmed of himself.
I want his love,apprecation and devotion.may be I am pushing him away.
He has been loving me before his affair.
Now plz give me a way or suggestions bcz I want change.he is satisfied.
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reader, Foot-In-My-Mouth  +, writes (8 May 2012):
 He sounds like a textbook jerk to me. If I were you, I'd dump his sorry ass. He sounds like a selfish person who's not only cheated on you but is hammering down your self esteem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionA mistake in describing that he doesn,t appreciate my beauty and personality.
He loves me but he is not attracted to me.
But he encourage me to improve my personality and posture.
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