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Help me! How can I get over him?

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Question - (10 February 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 February 2010)
A female Jamaica age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I was in a relationship with this guy for almost 3 years, he broke up with me for no reason when i ask him he said that i loved him too much. i really loved him and he really broke my heart. after the break up i still talked to him and i begged him to say with me cause i could not take the pain. months have gone by now i still see him becaue we live in the same community and go to the same church and have some of the same friends. one sunday he brought his new girlfriend to church it really hurt me. he as done so many things that shows that he does not want me but im still in love with him and its not going away, i really need some help cause i cant take this pain of knowin that i love him so much n he doesnt want me. often times i think about what his new girlfriend has that i dont. sometimes i feel like the only way im goin to be happy is if i have back in my life.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2010):

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I know its stupid of me to want someone who does not want me and i really dont want to want him its just so hard and sometimes i feel so lonely.

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A female reader, Shiro'-'Nosuke United States +, writes (11 February 2010):

Shiro'-'Nosuke agony aunti know how u feel, but if he said that u loved him to much, it ment that he didnt love u back anymore. u can never love someone too much! and u will always love him, sorry to say but its true, not always as much. the best way to get over him is to go out with some of you guys friend, see if u start to like any of them, and if that doesnt work, make sure he sees u with another guy, it might make him jelouse. you WILL get over him. promise ;)

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A female reader, skiing2009 United States +, writes (11 February 2010):

Im very sorry, I can feel your pain I am going through the same thing. Try to avoid him if at all positive that will make your life so much better. You deserve better and not second best! Take it one day at a time :)

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A male reader, zedd United States +, writes (10 February 2010):

You'd better distance yourself from the guy as much as possible and find new friends, new interets, hobbies, anything that keeps you busy so you will not be thinking of him all the time. You deserve a better life than longing for someone who doesn't care about you at all. Why would you want to get back together with him if that is so?

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