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Help, I'm on the verge of a breakdown.

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Question - (29 October 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 13-15, LoveHurtsIknow_I'llHelpYou writes:

i've been out with this boy a few times in the pass but it isn't that relevelant i don think. we've both been out with different people after the split, but i have always liked him, everything i do reminds me of him. i even dream about him. today i decided to ask him out to the cinema but as a mate, but when i was talking to one of my friends on msn, she said that she heard that he fancied one of his other girl mates. they sit next to each other in english and i always look over to make sure they're not flirting, but she's more of a tom boy and don't i think she really go out with boys, but i'm not too sure. I asked this boy whether he did like her more than a friend and he said no, but im still not sure. You've got to help, i'm on the verge of breaking down. I probably sound really sad but i have once self harmed because of him. I really like him. I'm not going to self harm again, but I really want to be with him again because I feel safe when I'm with him and havent felt this way about anybody else before and i've been out with 19 boys and im 13.

Please help.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2007):

hey girl, woah, if only guys knew the effect that they have on us ehy!! .. lisen to me, i dont want to sound like a boring adult cuz really im not one:) ..but girl...you is soooo soo young...the world is full of plenty of handsome men, wait till youre older and u will fully understand this. although right now i understand that your totally into this guy, i suggest u let him go..they say 'if you let them go, and they come back to you, then its meant to be, if not, let them fly'...let him go, and focuson yourself, u need to start to get some confidence back, cuz it cums across as tho ur really dependant on him, so why not go for a new haircut or something, luk mega hot, get involved with music or art, make your self seem reallly kooool, and when he notices that youre moving on, he'll soon get worried, and if not..im sure theres plenty of hotties who will notice how amazing you really are...:) god bless x x .p.s please dont self harm and ruin your beautiful body, why would you do that over a guy eh? think about how you would feel if you met some one truly good looking, and he askd you why you self harmed before..would you really want to reply with 'bcuz of my ex?' think about it luvvie xx

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