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writes: hi im a girl who lives in a conservative country... okay, there's this foreigner ive been going out with and we are so hot when we're together.he says he respects my being a virgin and he just wants to be with me even without penetration.but i just cant give him a chance to be with me. he lives in a condo with other people and i live with my parents. also, i don't want to go to any hotel cos i don't want to risk the possibilty that people might spot me entering to such places. and now i am worrying, is having such trips like that with him can make this relationship more serious? can i expect being with him for a long time? or were his words of love just his strategy to get me to bed and lose my virginity? aww, help. i'm 19, and in my country, probably only 15% are no longer virgins my age... i'm also scared of how people may think of me if i lose it...:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2008): hey thanks for replying!!! we had a conversation last night, he said he couldn't stand not making love to me...
i really don't know what to do!!!! i don't want to lose him but i'm not yet ready to lose my virginity either! he said i should understand him because he's an adult already (he's 25, and as you know, im 19). i don't understand it. i believe anyone can abstain themselves from not having sex as long as he or she has faith in him/herself. he said there's a possibilty he could cheat on me if he really could not stand it anymore! talk about pressure! i'm so confused! i really don't know what to do!!! help!!!!!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (23 June 2008):
Well you don't need to be in a place with a bed to go out together.
Have you thought about maybe going to places like, the cinema, restaurants, cafes? walks in the park. These are all places that many couples go to and have a nice time.
It's called dating.
Don't lose your virginity if you don't want to, and if he starts pushing that way then you'll know that's what he's after.
Good Luck!! xx
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