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writes:help! i think im bi. i think about guys and girls but i only wanna thik about girls. help! Reply to this Question
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reader, AvgGuy1  +, writes (14 April 2010):
 At your age... your hormones are all arage. If you are getting aroused looking at other guys, don't beat yourself up for it. It happens to EVERY GUY, gay, straight or in-between. If you find you are being emotionally attracted to guys as well... that's not much different. It's all part of the process of 'growing up'.
If, after an extended period (e.g. by the time you're 17 or even 18) you're not attracted to girls then you are most likely gay. But don't beat yourself up for it. There's nothing you can DO to change it.
If you are bi you'll find that you like BOTH sexes... and again, there's nothing wrong with that either.
You just have to work on accepting yourself for who you are. You need to stop believing what society/family has drilled into your head for so long because it's what THEY expect or want you to be.
Denying a part of yourself will, in the long run, only make you miserable.
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reader, Polaroid93  +, writes (14 April 2010):
It's probably curiosity to physically compare yourself with other guys not a sexual attraction. These are pretty normal teenge feelinggs
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reader, cnith +, writes (14 April 2010):
 What is giving you such stress? It's common to think about both sexes in terms of beauty. I do it all the time, though I'm straight I find some women "hot." (ie. Angelina Jolie)
Do you have religious issue that make this 'hard' for you?
Please know that god makes us a certain way for a reason. If god made you bi or even gay, it isn't your fault and there's nothing wrong with you. God will love you anyway. There are no conditions and god knew what he was doing so don't question it.
Many religions have made gay a "bad" thing but that's a man made myth. That book, called the bible, was written by man, not god. I don't care what drugs they were on. It was still written by humans.
Don't yourself stress out. You're fine the way you are. :)
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (14 April 2010):
 don't worry, thinking about guys too is fine. you might be bisexual, but if you are uncomfortable with letting anyone know, or being with a guy, just keep it to yourself. but accept who you are because if you really are bi you will always be attracted to both genders. however you are very young still and at your age it is commonto be confused about ones own sexuality. later on you might come to find that you are not bisexual at all, but straight. dont worry so much about it and see what you feel like 5 years from now.
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