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*etalheadMiss
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together almost five years, and we're eighteen. We're both extremely happy and in love, and we know we will be together for a very long time. But fairly recently, I've stopped wanting to have sex with him and I can't imagine why. I love him to pieces, I still find him extremely attractive, but I just don't want to have sex. He started (about a year or so ago) trying to pressure me, and that was about the time when I stopped wanting to have sex. Although I don't want to use that as an excuse. At the moment, I have sex with him because I love him and I want to make him happy, but it still isn't enough. Whats wrong with us, how can I fix it? Reply to this Question
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reader, MetalheadMiss +, writes (17 July 2010):
MetalheadMiss is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou, your answer sounds spot on and would explain a lot!
Not sure how to go about it, but I'm sure I'll think of something :)
Again - my thanks
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 July 2010):
Maybe the problem is that you feel like it's a chore because he pressurized you, rather than something a bit more intimate. Perhaps you need more attention from him than him just having his way? You seem to be doing a lot of giving. Get him to do some running around after you. Dates, evenings out, stuff like that were you can relax and not have to worry about sex. If you feel like it's not a chore, then maybe you'll want it more.
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