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writes: help i just found out my boyfriend is using me, he lives with his parents and i met him online he had me send him stuff all the time for him and his son thousands of dollars said he needed money needed toys for his son, he was doing without food. His parents told my mom who was also sending him stuff not to send him anything anymore . that there is nothing any of them needed and that he has been lieing his mom was even giggling about how he has used me. What should I do now this guy never saw me and i wasted a yr and half being lied to. I need advice. Should i confront this guy or just let it alone now and , not make any tempts to go in see him?His family no longer seems to like me because of this. Help please, i am sad and hurt and disappointed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2007): No point in confronting him. He has no conscious anyway. Apparently, his mom is no better. She thought it was Funny? Sick family. I personally would not bother to sue him because that would just cause you to have to have more contact with him and I am not sure you would win anyway. But really, you should get some counseling because it sounds like you have really low self-esteem. By the way the reason his family does not like you is because they do not respect you as you have not shown proper self-respect in allowing this creep to use you. I am not saying you are not worthy of respect, you are. You start by respecting yourself. They are the problem not you.
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reader, Farris  +, writes (26 February 2007):
 I feel really bad for you, honey. This man is NOT worth your time and definitely NOT worth your money.
Move on as soon as possible, and do not give him the time of day anymore. Even if he was taking the relationship seriously, a person who takes THAT much from their partner is taking advantage.
Tell him to stick it.
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (26 February 2007):
 You might consider pressing charges against this creep. He's probably feeding other women this same line of b.s. and if nobody reports him, he'll probably just keep on doing it.
Good luck.
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reader, Girlie_girl!! +, writes (26 February 2007):
I would suggest that you were a little naive to have send this guy money, etc when u hadnt even met him, and unfortinately u got bit hard because of it. I would suggest you learn from your mistakes and not to be as naive in the future. I would suggest that u don't even bother to contact him because he will prob only laugh- he doesnt seem like the type pf person who's guna care taht he hurt someone else. Leave him to his spiteful selfish ways and move on! GG x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2007): Delete his emails, contact, etc, etc, etc. There is no further reason for you to get in contact with him. The guy is a bastard. If you take him back for any reason, then you deserve to be treated badly. Otherwise, take this as an experience, and be more cautious in the future.
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