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Help! Is my penis too small?

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Question - (4 November 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 5 November 2009)
A male South Africa age 13-15, *n¤n¥m¤us writes:

i am a 15 years old and i believe my penis is too small, it is approx 14.5cm in length and 3.5cm in width. I am very scared to have sex because i am so insecure about the size. I want to know, wil it grow? can i make it bigger? and what does a woman like, is it too small? Please help

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A male reader, Illithid United States + , writes (5 November 2009):

Illithid agony auntYou're pretty much normal and FAR above what some unfortunate men have. And you're going to continue to grow for another few years at least a little. You're shaping up to be a perfectly normal guy. But let me fill you in on a little secret: women can rarely orgasm from sex anyway. About 75% of women NEED oral stimulation to climax, something that the size of your penis isn't going to change. You're big enough to enjoy it, big enough for her to enjoy it, and that's all you need, as long as you understand that foreplay is as important as the actual deed.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2009):

you're a little on the small/average size, but only 15. You will grow until you're about 17 or 18 (I know I did). Even if you stop at your current size, you are still in the average range. So stop worrying about it. If you put 100 guys in a room, you would rank about 60th. That's not small.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom + , writes (4 November 2009):

Nothing wrong with you. You're average and you've still not matured fully, so relax.

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A female reader, Anonymous_NF Bulgaria + , writes (4 November 2009):

Anonymous_NF agony auntThink of it this way, would you go out with a girl with small breasts, if that is not an issue for you then I don't think that it should be an issue that you have a small penis. In my opinion size don't matter, learn how to turn a girl on an other way.

I hope I could help

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2009):

I can't speak on behalf of all women because I know to some women size matters just as it matters to guys how attractive women are, but what matters most to me is the guys charater. Its going to matter more to a woman that you have a good personality and a good sense of humor then the size on your penis.

I dated a guy with a rather small penis but he provided good sex in ways that men who were more endowed did. Point being, you don't need a large penis to be a good lover. Don't stress over it or you will lack confidence in yourself. The lack of confidence would be the bigger turn off.

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (4 November 2009):

aphexinfinite agony auntyour near average so i wouldnt worry about the size not to mention thats not what counts. you still have a good year for it to maybe grow so dont worry. just read some info pages on the basics then just let the rest fall into place. hope this helps aphex xx

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