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Help! How long should I leave it before I text him?

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Question - (1 July 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So I asked for advice a couple of weeks ago. Thanks West1000 btw.

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-only-have-two-days-to-make-my.html]

Well I made my move, we kissed and shared quite a lot. The only problem is I can't quite remember everything as I was fairly drunk. The next day we talked briefly and he said he just wants to be friends because he doesn't think it would work. He is very shy and has never had a girlfriend. Admittedly I should have been more vocal about my feelings.

Anyway, now I'm home for the summer (3 months!). The only contact I have with him is through text message. The trouble is that his messages are very uncommunicative. I'm careful to not text him too much. I would just really like some tips on texting him. I text him last (a short thank you)yesterday. How long should I leave it to text if he doesn't? And how can I encourage him to be open with me?

Or is just trying to discreetly tell me to stop? How can I tell?

Thank you for any help. I'm just a bit upset at the moment. xx

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A female reader, sweetsiepie United Kingdom +, writes (1 July 2010):

sweetsiepie agony aunthey hun if hes never had a gf before he mite be abit scared i'm sure he'll come round just send the little 1's hi how r u wot u up 2 kind of things leave it small and c if he makes the convo any bigger just be patient with him x

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