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female
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18-21,
*uriosity18
writes:Me and my boyfriend are very sexually active. We love trying and doing new things. I love our sex life! but theres...one little problem.He won't go down on me!I've never been "ate" out before, until he done it. And he used to do it all the time for me, and it was great!I keep myself well trimmed (or completely shaved) down there, and...I keep myself clean. Nothing is different down there, then...there was before.My friends think its possibly 2 choices:Either...i take forever to orgasm (which isn't true! I think the longest i've ever took to orgasm during oral...was 6minutes)Or Hes not getting oral himself. (which isn't likely, i ALWAYS give him a blowjob before sex)Its been months, since hes been down on me.What can this be? why isn't he doing it? I tried to bring it up in the car, playfully. I was like "is something wrong with my vagina?" and hes like "hahahaha no!" and im like "why don't you eat me out anymore?" and he just laughed. and i lefted it alone after that.What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): He should be doing it for two reasons:
1. You like it.
2. He likes that you like it.
Anything that gets one partner off, the other should love just for that reason. Even if he doesn't like to do it that much, it shows he's willing to do things to please you. Just like you do things for/to him that you might not like that much (watch sports on TV).
It's what people who love each other do.
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reader, bhambird  +, writes (31 May 2009):
hi, first of all the way you put it "eat me out" isnt really the way you should say it "go down on me" sounds better after all it is a thing two people that luv each other do the next time he asks you for a BJ say no, When he asks why explain that he no longer does it to you and it makes you feel like he's not into you anymore.
It should be give and take with anything between a couple that love each other not all one way thats selfish, he should change his mind soon enough if not then you got to start asking yourself if this is the guy for you.
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reader, satindesire +, writes (31 May 2009):
 You should ask him to next time you two are being sexual together. He can't read your mind and you can't expect him to do something he doesn't know you want.
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