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writes:My boyfriend and I are complicated right now and we are trying to fix things. weve been together 4 years now. its almost valentines day and he hasnt said anything to me about going out. i already got him a gift and a card, and im just waiting for him to ask me. he hadnt so I go so whats your plans for next weekend and he goes i dont know yet. i was dissappointed that he did ask. so i go so no valentines? and he got mad and told me not to beat around the bush if i want something. but then he goes i guess i can come home but i dont have any money to do anything. is it wrong to want the guy to ask you out? and should i give him the gift?another thing is hes been saying dont beat around the bush thing for a few times now. not just about valentines day. i kinda get the feeling he doesnt care anymore. i would try talking to him but it would cause a fight and i dont want to fight. what should i do?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 February 2010):
It's not wrong that you want him to ask you out at all. There is a possibility that he's planned something and wants it to be s surprise. There is also a possibility that he has planned nothing. I think you need to wait to see what happens after Valentines Day, because then you will know for sure where you stand.
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