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He was so heartless, didnt want me, didnt love me, but would have sex with me, hes doing it to someone else, do I tell them ?

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Question - (4 April 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 April 2007)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

if a man dont love you,and dont want to be with you,but wont tell you.and he play whit yours feeling and has sex whit you .and he knows he dont want you.but wont tell you.he play you for a long time he dont care how you feel.he dont care for you never did.how can some one be like that for so long.and has he always been like that.i tell you i dont no what to thank or feel .how can some one have no heart or feelings to do someone like he did me.he has kill me on the inside i have never felt so much hurt befor now.now he with a new one.do i tell her what on her way or let her found out her self.he's out fo my life now but the hurt is still going on do i tell it ? or let him keep playign his game?am i the bad guy for telling, or the bad guy for leting it go on, what to do. ?, help me....

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2007):

Well dear ...it's actually never a good idea to approach the the new girl ...she will only think that you jealous and still want him for yourself ....let her find out for herself wether he's serious about her or not ...and keep your head up he didn't deserve you anyway ....any man that can make you cry isn't worth crying over ...and every dog gets his day .....

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A female reader, dragonette Sweden +, writes (4 April 2007):

dragonette agony auntNo, it wouldn't make you a bad person if you told the other woman about his heartlessness, but the problem is that she is not going to believe you. You will most likely come across a jealous ex-girlfriend and you will just be brushed off.

I think it's more important for you to heal yourself now. Seek strength in your friends and your family. Do things for yourself: facial treatments, indulge in ice cream, go to church, whatever makes you feel good.

I can tell from your writing it will take time to find your way back to balance and I wish you the best of luck.

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