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*xjust_mexx
writes:Last night me, my boyfriend and quite a few friends were out in town. All of us extremely drunk. At the end of the night my boyfriend told me to leave him alone and he never wants to speak to me or see me ever again, I don't know why because I hadn't done anything and we was fine all night. Today though I've spoke to him and he says he doesn't remember saying that and if he did he didn't mean it and he wants to be with me. So although he says he doesn't remember saying it and he says he didn't mean it, why did he say it? Will there be some kind of thing behind it? Apart from this we have never ever argued and our whole relationship (8 months) has been perfecthelp please.
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reader, Cindy303  +, writes (6 April 2008):
 People say and do things when they have been drinking that they dont remember and that they dont mean. I know I am guilty of this myself. If your boyfriend is fine with things today and says he doesn't remember then dont stress about it. After eight months it sounds like your doing fine with the relationship. Just put this one to the nothing to worry about box. He was drunk, it happens. Try not to stress about it. All the best, Cindy
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reader, fishdish +, writes (6 April 2008):
 I think I would trust him on this, you gave him a way out of the relationship if he wanted it, and he resisted and said he wanted you. It really just sounds like the drinking went a little out of control, sometimes people say things TOTALLY from left field that they really don't mean when they're drunk. Maybe you just did ONE thing that got on his nerves for a sec and just lashed out at you. I would be cautious in having him drink that much, at least around you, and if he ever acts like this again I'd reconsider how he feels about you, but right now I would treat it like a horribly offensive drunken rant.
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