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He wants to make space for me in his cupboard. What does this mean?

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Question - (3 June 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 5 June 2010)
A female South Africa age 36-40, *ia100 writes:

hi i am 24 and my boyfriend is 27 we have been dating for 3months :) and we still so inlove. On saturday he told me that he is going to make space for me in his cupboard for when i sleep over. Can someone please tell me if there is any meaning behind this ?

Thanx so much :)

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A female reader, scythe Australia +, writes (5 June 2010):

scythe agony auntFor a minute there I thought he meant he was clearing a space for you to sleep in his cupboard!

Jokes aside, I think it's a sign of a steady relationship. Just be careful not to over think or assign meanings to little things such as these :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2010):

It means u get to leave some of your stuff there, like tooth brush, clothing, your shampoos and etc that you want there for when you spend the night.

It also kind of ensures that he won't bring other women home, and he's letting you slowly creep into his space. :)

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A female reader, BunnyTee United States +, writes (3 June 2010):

BunnyTee agony auntand just where will his pet snake, Rodney, live then?

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A female reader, zia100 South Africa +, writes (3 June 2010):

zia100 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

guys thanks for the feedback mean a lot..

i didn't believe in love after my x boyfriend cheated on me and whenever someone was interested in me i would Puss them away

last year my bf and i were formally inroduced to each other at a function when our eyes met i knew this was the start of something beautiful :) And it really is magical. He told me that God is so awesome that he knows how to bring people together

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A female reader, BunnyTee United States +, writes (3 June 2010):

BunnyTee agony auntPositively fraught with signs and wonders, q!

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A female reader, BunnyTee United States +, writes (3 June 2010):

BunnyTee agony auntI'd bet the farm that it means he's planning to make some space in a cupboard for you.

Maybe it's nothing more than he's tired of your stuff being all over the place when you stay over.

Could be it means that he's making a place for you in his life, though not a huge or permanent thing, just some space for you.

I, personally, don't attach large mystical meanings requiring interpretation to all that is said and done in relationships. Sometimes things are just what they seem to be. Do yourself the favor of not over thinking every little thing or gesture. Just take it for what it is..a place to stash your things while you're there. If it means something else, let him be the one to tell you that.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (3 June 2010):

chigirl agony auntIt means he is taking the relationship to a new level, by slowly allowing you to keep some of your things at his place permanently.

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