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He wants time to get over the guilt of dumping his ex

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Question - (3 May 2015) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 May 2015)
A female India age 36-40, *olden_Su writes:

I'm in love with a guy who already had a gf when I met him. Now the guy says he loves me but can't commit to me as he is trying to get over the girl.

His ex is also crazy and keeps coming back and keeps calling him although she knows he loves me. The guy says he is in utter guilt due to what he has done to that girl and wants sometime to let the girl move on.

What should I do in this case? As family is also pressurising me to get married? I have tried to move on many times but he doesn't let me. Am confused.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2015):

he might be going over the top a bit about what hes done to his ex. Did he harm her in some way or just decide he wanted out...do they have a secret love child ? The whole thing seems a very unnexessary storm in a teacup. Tell family and others pressuring you to get married to butt out. Its not their business, reprioritise who and what is important to you and ask your partner why he feels so guilty when no substantial harm has been done to the ex.

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