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writes:me and my partner just had newborn baby (4 weeks) his cousin wife come down to help me i just had a gut feeling that some thing was going on i walked in the living room and they were kissing hes apoligized but doesnt know why he did it and now he want me to be normal with her so his cousin dont find out what should i do plz help ?
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reader, cheers  +, writes (31 August 2011):
 My hearts goes to you. Be strong!
Problem lies on your hubby. Tell him to behave from now on or else i'll tell to secret to his hubby. Ask him to COMMIT to be a loyal & good father as the baby was just born. Let's patch things up for the sake of the baby, don't you agree?
also tell her firmly, not to come your hse anymore.(even though he begs you to). Better engage a babysit. Talk to her directly face to face that both of you are married couple.Pls respect & stay away frm my hubby now. If you respect it,i'll do the same thing.If not, I'll tell your hubby straight away. We just have a baby, Why do you want to ruin happy occasion?
Your task now is to doll up yourself even more. Get new ones with nice laces & sexy blouses in order to gain his attentions back to you.Pls work on it! You can do it!
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (29 August 2011):
 What does your partner mean by treat her normal?
Does he mean to act as if nothing happened? You caught them being innappropriate.
If I were in your shoes, I would be sending her home and let her answer to her own husband why she is back early.
As for your partner, I would asking him where his heart is. Why would he ask you to lie for him?
I would also be asking if this is the first time they have ever crossed the line. If not, maybe she was coming to help herself to your man-not to help with a new baby.
I think you partner is asking way too much of you.
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