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He want's me to be more dominant in the bedroom,any tips?

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Question - (15 August 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 January 2008)
A female Australia, anonymous writes:

Hi, my bf and i have been together almost 3 years, im 20 his 25, we live together. our sex life is pretty good maybe once a week, we always mix it up,different places in the house,different postions,making our own movies,toys etc the thing is he is always asking that i be more dominant and he said he would love me to just out of the blue just tie him up and take control, the thing is he is the only person iv had sex with and im a shy person, and well im very small compared to him and trying to be rough would just feel werid for me, but anyway i though as a suprise i will try this for him but i don;t know what i could do or the best way? any suggestions would be great?, my bf is very kinky and would be up for anything.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2008):

Being dom can be very fun for a shy girl...I myself am really shy outside of the bedroom. Try tieing him up teasing him a bit make him beg u for what he wants. Light spanking can also be very fun but make sure he is ok with it first.

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A female reader, midgetgem +, writes (15 August 2006):

midgetgem agony auntI'm very small compared to my other half as well!

Tying him up would be a great compromise. That way you're in control. If he's lying on his back you can control how much of him you take if you're on top.

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