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writes:how do i get over a guy a who lied to me saying that once he sleeps with me i would be the only girl he sleeps with cos he dont sleep around, few months later i asked him if he is having sex with someone else he turned away and said no then got up then walk off saying yes im only saying yes cos thats what you wana hear. i feel used he me for sex. and its broken my heart. and now he's avoiding me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): Some guys lie to get women into bed. Other guys don't. That guy was one of the liars.
Nex time stick it out until a guy wants to be official BF and GF before sleeping with him.
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reader, romany +, writes (28 July 2010):
 Hi hun, Its not unusual for some people to lie to get what they want, and its not unusual for some people to go out with the intention of hurting someone, as he seems to have done with the yes comment.
I do think however, that he has done both, used you and lied to you, and intentionally gone out to hurt you and it was because of a bloke like him, that brought me to this site too.
After many weeks feeling the way you do now, I realised with the help of this site, that this guy was all the things I didn't like and so i cut ties and i've ignored all his attempts to get in touch, which has empowered me and enabled me to regain my self respect, which he had no right to make me question.
This guy is a rat, forget him and chalk it up to experience, he is not worthy of the emotions you are wasting on him. Just cut off completely.
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reader, straight to the truth +, writes (28 July 2010):
I'm sorry but men use lines, its a simple thing in life and unfortunately you have learnt it the hard way.
men like sex and they use lines to get sex. you need to have be more carfeul who you sleep with if you dont like have casual relationships.
I personall have a 6 date rule, if they are still sticking around after no sex for 6 dates then your pretty safe to assume he is interested in you and not just sleeping with you.
if you fancy a something a little more casual then simply through this rule out of the window and maybe have a 3 date rule.
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