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writes:I've been talking to this guy and he shows interest but then he acts like we're just friends and gets jealous when I talk to other guys, I like him too but I want to know why hes being catty? If that what it even is,
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reader, femmenoir  +, writes (16 February 2018):
 You're going to have to get to the point with this guy.
If you really like him and would like to pursue a relationship with him, then be direct with him and tell him.
His response will be either, yes or no.
Either is acceptable and fine, right?
You will survive and it's better to know either way, rather than not know.
If you're not overly keen on him, then i wouldn't be overly concerned about his behaviour, although he has no right to get jealous/act catty, regardless of what the status of your relationship with him is.
He doesn't own you, just as you don't own him.
You're still young, you've still got many years of life experiences to experience, in years to come, so for now, just enjoy your life, keep it as simple and complicated free, as much as possible.
You don't want, nor need unnecessary issues and baggage at this stage of your young life.
If you feel this guy is way too much for you to handle at this stage of your life, then say goodbye and move on.
Don't allow your precious time to be wasted with this guy, if he's not going to tell you straight up, as to what he really wants/where you stand with him.
My conclusion, to spare you and he any ongoing sagas, you must ask him where you both stand.
This way, you know exactly which road to take, good or bad.
Good luck!
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reader, TrueLoveWaits2016 +, writes (16 February 2018):
If he knows you like him, but chooses to keep you as a friend, talk to other guys and pay no attention to him. If he liked you, he would make an effort. Instead he is keeping you from other guys so that he has a fall back.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 February 2018):
 Talk to him? Do you like this guy? If you do then be open and honest with him and ask him if he would like to catch a drink sometime. If you are not sure about him or just want to be friends, then tell him where he stands with you. It really is as simple as that instead of trying to guess.
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