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*nthony2
writes:So I am married to a mama's boy. We been having his sister sleep over to help out with our three children. We had it out over his mother and how she is a pill popper and I dont trust my kids with her. Bottom line, I dont like her at all. When my husband woke up from us yelling at eachother, he started yelling at me and took the side of his sister. Supported her all night and didnt say a thing to me. Didnt come give me a hug or see if I was ok. Am I wrong for him not backing me- his wife up a 100% ? Am I over reacting by seeing it as I am on the bottom and his family is golden? If so, wouldnt I only be doing whats best for my children? How am I supposed to feel? Because I am not happy! Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 October 2009):
The problem is, he is now between two women who he loves, which is a difficult position to be in. The truth is he should be in your side, so you're not over reacting to be honest. But he will naturally want to protect his mother. You have to approach this calmly. If you're angry, you will pay the price. He has sided against you once, so he'll do it again. Start by asking him why he felt he had to side with his sister.
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