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He told me never to call him again and to get tested for HIV! Why would he do this to me?

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Question - (5 May 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 May 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

ive a psoarisis, till my boyfriend found out when we try to fist made up. he felt sorry for me and yet we still have it in protected way. (COndom) the worst part is, he left me hanging dont know why he ask me not to call him anymore and ask me to check myself for HIV!! he insulted me and i feel shame of myself for 1 wks. anyone could advised me to get rid of worst feeling here. why man have sex and left woman hanging?

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A male reader, IHateWomanBeaters United States +, writes (6 May 2010):

IHateWomanBeaters agony auntPsoriasis is not a symptom of HIV/AIDS

However, if he told you that he might have HIV or to get checked out for a different reason, then you should get checked for HIV.

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (5 May 2010):

Not My Name agony auntI don't see what psoriasis has to do wih sex since it is not an std, ... but personally I'd freak out a bit if a guy I slept with told me to check myself for HIV - not coz of anything I have, .. but I'd start worrying what he had to make such a comment.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (5 May 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntJust because someone threw rubbish into your brain , you accepted it .You should know what is the truth and the false .

You don't have to accept anything from him as the Gospel truth. You know it is all lies and you should just ignore those words.

He came and got what he wanted and left.He was not interested in a relationship.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (5 May 2010):

rcn agony auntAre you talking about having the non-contagious skin condition. If so, I don't see the relationship with aids, as he had mentioned to you. It is auto-immune, but has no relation what so ever to HIV. Are you sure that he wasn't just looking for sex, got what he wanted, then disappeared? Some men do this. It's not right, but it does happen. Don't hold on to it as their is something wrong with you. Don't blame yourself for his behavior. If everyone blamed themselves for the actions of a jerk (alternative words originally came to mind) this world would be much worse off than it already is.

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