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girlie12345
writes:Where do I start!! I was going out with the father of my child for almost 4 years. At the beginning of this year I started to feel like I didn't want to be with him anymore and so I ended the relationship but got back with him in April. I became certain that I didn't want to be with him anymore and so I ended the relationship for good in June. I then slept with a couple of people over a few months and have actually met the perfect guy but he won't open up 2 me because of the crazed baby father who found out about us and banned me from seeing him!! I have not stopped seeing him and today he told me he wants us to have a proper relationship and I'm reluctant to do so for fear of hurting my baby father and also for the fear of putting them both in a dangerous situation. HELP!! I don't know what to do. It's definitely over with my baby father and I wish O could be with the other man!! argh!!! girlie12345 Reply to this Question |
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reader, rcn  + ♥, writes (10 September 2007):
 I loved reading your question, not for your situation, but realizing different countries, and cultures experience some of the same difficulties. Do you take care of the child, or does he? Here's the thing. You're an adult, a mother. You've found the perfect guy. After separating with the baby's dad. He's in your life to see and partially support the child you share, that's it. He has absolutely no right to dictate who you date, as long as your actions are not threatening the health, happiness, and safety of your baby.
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