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writes:I am 17 years old. I am met a Sikh boy on MSN and I am Muslim. Religion doesn't matter to me as long as the person loves me. He asked me to be his girlfriend--I left it for a couple of days to get to know him a bit. He kept asking and told me he loves me, in a matter of two days and he sent me an email when I rejected him saying:"Manz are pouring their hearts to you and you throw it back in my face, give me a chance I love you your the only one who understands me please I can't live without you"I have FEELINGS for him but I can't TRUST him in a matter of DAYS. I told him he never has never seen me and I showed him my picture even though he said that it would change the way he feels about me--but when I showed him he started keeping distance from me. He still says he loves me but hardly talks to me. What should I do? I have fallen for him and he makes me happy. Is he playing saying he loves me in two days?
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (24 June 2007):
 There is no way he feel in love with you in two days. It is very rare it happens that quickly and chatting to someone over msn isn't going to let it happen.
It sounds like he wanted to get a girlfriend so that he could say he has one. You sound very sensible in the fact that you wanted to get to know him first rather than jump in to something with someone you don't know. The fact he's now not chatting much after seeing your picture may mean he's found someone else or may not have liked your picture. Sorry that sounded harsh but I've had it happen to me a few times in my teens too.
All you can do is walk away from him and move on. It hurts when somebody just suddenlt stops talking to you but there are plenty more boys out there!
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reader, bitterblue  + ♥, writes (24 June 2007):
 You haven't fallen for him, you can't love a person in matter of days! Especially when you've met her in the internet. You may have fallen in love with an illusion, that's clear. The fact he's declared to you so quickly is a sign of immaturity; Internet is pretty sketchy, people show what they want to show and you can't check, you can't follow reactions, look in the eyes.
Internet love is in most cases deceptive and also self-deceiving. Do you truly think you "have fallen for him" in your private heart? I'm not denying you can find friends here, but net's not a very firm ground to step on, you're young, get a taste of the real world...
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