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writes:My boyfriend loves me. He's told me via text. Also when he's drunk. I also know that he wants us to last forever and move in together. But again, he says this through text or when he's drunk. I know he has communiation problems, but why won't he say it in person?? He says its too early to say it in person, being only four months together..but if he can say it through text, why not in person? Should I even be freaking about this?
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reader, kurtyz  +, writes (22 July 2009):
 because i am like this guy cause i get really nervous around girls i like and i freeze up and end up sayin stupid things and i find it easier by text because i can truly express my feelins without being afraid.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (22 July 2009):
 HI,
No need to be freaked out by this, some people really are not good at expressing there feelings face to face or over the phone so do it in cards, letters or in modern day text form.
You say he has a communication problem, is this something like Aspergers syndrome?
When people are drunk they oftern loose there inhabitions and most of the time tend to tell the truth, so sounds like he really does love you.
Do you love him, and do you tell him in text or face to face or both?
To me, as long as he is telling you in some form that he loves you then all is right and you just need to be happy with that and take your time, 4 months is not long but is long enough to have strong feelings for someone so just chill and all will come in the fullness of time, no pressure just enjoy him.
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reader, easilyamused +, writes (22 July 2009):
dont freak out too much. us guys are kinda thick in the head when it comes to relationships. just tell him you love him every time a time presents itself. pretty soon he will tell you he loves you in person when hes not drunk. good luck!
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reader, Alexiedos +, writes (22 July 2009):
 I had my boyfriend tell me he loved me a few months in as i had said it to him. A few months later he admitted that he had lied then but definately knew he loved me now. I wouldnt freak out, i think hes being very mature about this and making sure he doesnt hurt you or get hurt himself by moving too fast. Give it time and by 7 months you will definately know if its love and you wont stop telling eachother if it is, trust me :)
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