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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi all,I am 25 years old and recently, I met a guy on an online dating site. I am taking caution and so far, I find his personality, mindset, and attitude decent enough to continue getting to know him. But I am unclear as to why I get nervous and really shy whenever he mentions about kissing. He asked me seriously about how I would want to be kissed by him or someone I really like. And it was not easy for me to openly have that discussion. I am capable of talking about the topic(and have kissed before) but tend to shy away from it. So why do I get nervous? Is this a sign to a form of attraction?
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (22 May 2015):
 Is being nervous a sign of attraction? No, not in this case I think you are nervous because he IS jumping AHEAD with things when you BARELY know him and have NEVER met. Let's say you met face to face and he is NOT at all attractive to you (or vice verse) then talking about kissing might make you feel you HAVE to kiss a guy you feel no attraction to. And that would be bad, right?
So just tell him to go slow. Get to know each other.
I think kissing should come more natural, more organic not on a schedule.
Met up, see if you two get along in person, have a few dates THEN when you absolutely CAN'T keep your hands to yourself, you can think about the kissing.
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