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He takes forever to come, am I doing it wrong?

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Question - (4 January 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2007)
A female age 18-21, anonymous writes:

am i doing somthing wrong? everytime i give head (which has only been 5 times in my life) how come it has taken ages! for my BF to cum???

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A female reader, I can solve any problem +, writes (5 January 2007):

Some guys take a long time if he comes fast in sex and takes forever when getin head maybe you are doin something but if he takes a while in sex aswell thats just the way he his

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A female reader, CarrieMagdelene United States +, writes (5 January 2007):

CarrieMagdelene agony auntDear writer, Don't worry! Please, don't! As other repliers said, ask him what he likes and what he doesn't like. This will help you to do somethings better that maybe you weren't doing to his liking. But be confident about it...It's a sexy thing to men. By the way, even if you're doing everything right, and it still takes him a while to ejaculate, it's probably a good thing for you; longer interludes, weather it's felatio or intercourse, are usually more satisfying.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007):

Darling please do not fret about the amount of time it takes for him to come! Every guy is different and some just take longer than others. If you are concerned that you are not doing things correctly try playfully asking him if everything is ok at the beginning. Ask him questions like does he like "this" or "that" and try different things. He should not feel pressured into being nice if you ask a this or that question and then everyone will be happy. I hope you don't worry any more!!!!

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A female reader, helpful girl United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2007):

helpful girl agony auntwell some times it is normally the reason of not being with that person very long and not knowing what their use to which beleive it can take a while to get what their use to and how they like it.or if not that well it may be lack of expereince i mean 5times isnt that many so dont worry your get the hang of it, and also if you are doing it why he may of had a bit to much to drink sometimes boose course lost of stimulation as well as consontration.

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