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writes: Hello everyone,Okay... There's this guy who I've known for a little over 7 years. Three years ago he had wanted to start a relationship with me which caught me by total surprise since I never looked at him in that way. He is a very great guy but at that time he was suffering from lung cancer and I didn't want to grow attached and not know whether he'd survive the cancer or pass away. I really didn't know if I could have handled losing him. Well now three years have passed and a couple of weeks ago had seen him for the first time, the cancer is gone .. I really never had gotten over him and would like to have something with him. But I'm really not sure how to go about it since I really dont know if he would still be interested in me. Any Suggestions on how I should go after this guy. Reply to this Question |
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reader, Zim  +, writes (12 April 2007):
 I would recommend being honest with him. He liked you enough in the past to want to start a relationship with you. It can't hurt to ask him if he would like to have one now can it? He won't have a problem with you saying no before, your reasons are perfectly legitimate. In fact, he will probably be very flattered that you still like him after three years! Good luck. I hope it goes well.
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reader, mitch +, writes (11 April 2007):
Well, just be honest! He'll clearly let you have your say and be understand if he doesn't feel for you now, because of the way he felt for you before. Your reason for not wanting to get attached and lose him is an entirely fair one, i don't think he would feel bad about that. just make a moment of it, and all should be fine!
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