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He stopped texting me back, is he planning to break up with me??

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Question - (24 October 2009) 9 Answers - (Newest, 30 October 2009)
A female United States age 16-17, anonymous writes:

I don't know what to do, my boyfriend has stopped saying sweet things to me. Is he planning to break up with me?

My boyfriend and I used to text sweet things to each other before we went to bed every day, and then one day, I tell him good night, I love him, and that he's the reason I get up in the morning; I then proceed to go to bed. The next morning, I wake up, but I hadn't received any response (I usually would receive one several minutes after sending something). Thinking maybe he had not received it, I asked him about it, and he said that yes, he had received it, and then continued to talk about other things.

Also, last night, he never wished me a good night, like he used to every day. Today, I told him I couldn't wait to see him today because we're going to a school dance, but he never replied =/

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A female reader, buffy0809  +, writes (30 October 2009):

buffy0809 agony auntI just want to say sometimes guys dont like to text but they do it to be nice ..trust me I have 5 brothers and they always say I text her because I know she likes to do it or I do it when Im not able to talk to her...just relax stop texting him see what happens..he'll come around

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A female reader, Little Miss Hope United Kingdom +, writes (25 October 2009):

Stop telling this guy u love him, love is a strong word so maybe by the sound of it he's not ready for a commitment. Also as the others have said, try to reduce ur txt msgs, let him miss u, then he'l realise what he wants in life! X

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A female reader, Duckyhelp United Kingdom + , writes (24 October 2009):

Duckyhelp agony auntYes, i think that if u do what he's doing then either he will realize that he wants the night txts again or you guys just wont do that anymre.

Im 15, and my bf dont txt me, so i ignore him :L and he trys 2 talk 2 me a lot :L

and im on msn atm to him. and he hasnt said hi 2 me yet :L

but this doesnt mean he wants 2 break up with me :L

Jst chill and have faith. and dont become clingy. as it is very unattractive :L

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A male reader, SexyMik United Kingdom +, writes (24 October 2009):

Ask him to be totally honest and tell you if anthing is bothering him. There may easily be a perfectly good explanation.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009):

You should ask him what happen to him and tell him how you feel now. but when you talk to him, just clam down and sweet.you know guys like sweet girl.:P I think may be he've some problem like with his family or study or something. Its not he found someone else. If he is with somebody he'll tell you.I guess. so, make sure you clear with him. and tell him how you feel. see what he say.

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A female reader, annoymousbabes United Kingdom +, writes (24 October 2009):

annoymousbabes agony auntLook this boy i cannot say is going to break up with you just privately talk to him , he might just have alot of things on his mind. Don't text him at night then that'll get him thinking what have i done ? Am i going to lose her ? and he will come running back to you before you know it.

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A female reader, annoymousbabes United Kingdom +, writes (24 October 2009):

annoymousbabes agony auntLook this boy i cannot say is going to break up with you just privately talk to him , he might just have alot of things on his mind. Don't text him at night then that'll get him thinking what have i done ? Am i going to lose her ? and he will come running back to you before you know it.

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A female reader, annoymousbabes United Kingdom +, writes (24 October 2009):

annoymousbabes agony auntLook this boy i cannot say is going to break up with you just privately talk to him , he might just have alot of things on his mind. Don't text him at night then that'll get him thinking what have i done ? Am i going to lose her ? and he will come running back to you before you know it.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom + , writes (24 October 2009):

Take it easy. It's way too soon to jump to conclusions at this point. Something might have happened at home, so relax a little. We dont know what he's thinking, so next time you see, him gently ask what has happened to the sweet texts.

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