A
female
age
51-59,
*onfused feelings
writes:Help!!! I have been dating this man for almost 2 yrs now. It started great (as they usually do), but feels as though it is going down hill fast! I am a very sexually active and at the beginning of our relationship he informed me that flirting is like "cheating" and if were not out of town w/out one another than porn ought be left alone! Y do u need porn when I am not at home?? Good point i feel the same. but he has just recently informed me that he likes watching porn because he likes to see others having sex, he said sometimes he watches when he thinks of us and other times not.. he wont let me watch one with him? he has not let me seen him naked in well over a yr.?! and to top it off, if he see's a pretty female on TV he will stop dead in whatever it is he is doing and focus totally on her, them etc. I have walked around naked and there has been times when he dont even notice!? Ouch!! and when were out in public he will stare, look them up and down, eye contact etc. He says its Bcause he's a people watcher! I dont notice him looking at ugly people!! dont get me wrong were all human were going to look but theres limits and I strongly feel if your happy in love and attracted to ur other half than you this type of behavior wouldnt be taken place?! Right or Wrong??Not only does this make me feel awful, Disrespected hell the whole nine yards. I feel as though he's not attracted to me! I have approached the subject with him but he gets defensive and states i'm in secure! Sorry, but I have blonde hair, blue eyes, 5'2 and 120 Pds but when one does the above who wouldnt become inscure!? Do I stay or do I go? Am I wrong for feeling this way? Do I do the same and go from there?
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reader, Tbosse  +, writes (22 April 2011):
 Dont go, run. This man loves you less
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