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writes:I love my boyfriend, we have been together for 4 years, we are really in love together, but the problem is that he smokes weed, and i really hate this thing, I feel that he just shouldn't, i dislike the way he talks to me about weed, and that its something so special in his life,We are 17 now, he's been smoking weed since a year and half, He went to another country for 9 months and he didn't smoke any, because he couldn't find anyone who sells it there, But now hes back, and he has been smoking it everyday! every single day, 2, 3 times a day .. And I am really scared and worried about him, he never smoke weed when hes with me, and i have never seen him smoking , but the thing is, i want him to quit it, and i don't know how, ! its really annoying that the one i love smokes weed, I've talked a a lot to him about it, and every time he keeps on telling me that it wont cause any harm, and that its better than cig , Can anyone tell me what to do, I'm just confused about it, I don't want to break up with him! for this reason, Cause these 4 years, are the best years of my life. So please, tell me what to do, Thanks a lot ..
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reader, RoseA +, writes (24 February 2011):
RoseA is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks a lot, JustinNki.. i did the same thing, i told him, if u want me to accept that your smoking weed, I'm going to smoke with you. but every time he refuses telling me that he doesn't want me to smoke cig or weed, he likes me the way i am, and that if he agreed for me to smoke with him, That i might think that "hes a bad guy and wants me to get used with this thing.." Honestly , If he brought weed, and he accepted me to smoke with him, I wont agree.. Because I'm sure, if i agreed , i will give him more chance not to stop it in anyway. I'll try my best, =]
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reader, RoseA +, writes (24 February 2011):
RoseA is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe've talked a lot about it, i talk to him almost every 2 days. But i get the same answer, ='[
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reader, RoseA +, writes (24 February 2011):
RoseA is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't drink alcohol and I don't smoke anything. It's because I hate all of that stuff. But he drinks alcohol once a month, and he smokes weed and cigs. I dislike it when he goes around with his friends, and smokes weed the whole time.Thanks for your reply.
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reader, DeeLicious  +, writes (24 February 2011):
Hun(: Try tlkn too him agian lke smoking it once a week or sumthing .
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reader, zeroyear  +, writes (24 February 2011):
Marijuana is possibly the safest, most non-harmful recreational drug around. Do you drink alcohol? If so, you are ingesting a more dangerous and toxic substance than he is. Relax, let him enjoy his habit. Educate yourself on the matter, I think you'll be pleasantly surprised.
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reader, JustinNki +, writes (24 February 2011):
 I KNOW EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL!!!
-_- me and my gf/ex we met and became best friends thru smoking and now weve been on and off for almost two years, she likes to smoke , not all the time but she smokes and I hatee it! shes already dittzy as it is and smoking does not help.
ive been sober for a while. but what helped me , is we made a deal if she wanted to smoke , we'd smoke together, but only like once a month or somethiing, and smoking myself opened up my mind to it.
if not after two years, i just really have to tell myself that i had to accept it because i love her. we've faught about it sooo much. its a hard thing.
i did bitch and bitch and complain until she stopped but she still does it sometime so best of luck i dont have any magic advice but just keep a open mind try and comprimise with him
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