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writes: I met a guy a while back and we exchanged e-mail addresses. It's been almost a year, I feel strongly about him and I want to tell him how I feel. I think he may feel the same way, but I have been extremely wrong about things like this so I was hoping someone could maybe let me know if it sounds like he's interested, or just..I don't know..trying to be nice?He's constantly commented on my looks, saying he thinks I'm beautiful, etc (don't mean to sound conceited there because I'm definitely not beautiful.) He even drew a picture of me once--he used to be an art student. Which I thought was quite nice, though he probably just did it because I told him he ought to start drawing more.He's said lots of things like he wishes he could see me more, he sent me a cute Valentines card and sends me little cards for important days, like when I took my SATs and a congrats card and all that. He's very sweet like that.Sometimes I think he seems really interested and I should go for it, and other times I really doubt myself. What should I do? If you think he IS interested, how do I let him know my feelings without risking the friendship? Is it even possible? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2006): Definetely let him know you're feelings.I don't think it would be risking your friendship.If he has the same feelings for you or not, at least he will know what you really feel.And if he just wants you two to be friends then I think he would simply just tell you that and nothing bad at all would happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2006): It's impossible to say as I don't know him (so I could be wrong)but from what you have written, I would say that he is really in to you!
Considering all the nice things he does for you and says to you, I don't think you would risk your friendship by finding out his true feelings for you. In the meanwhile can you think of any reasons why he has not mentioned any thing himself about liking you more than a friend?
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