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He says there's something about me that's pushing him away...

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Question - (17 December 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 December 2008)
A female South Africa age 36-40, *LN writes:

What do you do if a guy you're dating tells you there's something about you that's pushing him away from you? and when you finally confront him about the issue he tells you that, he wants to be just friends with you?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008):

That is just his way of politely letting you know that he is not that "into" you. That he does not see a future with you. Respect him for not taking advantage of you and for being honest. You can remain friends should you wish, but don't have sleepless nights over him. Start going out with friends and start dating other guys. You will meet someone that are drawn to you like a moth by a candle. Someone that are compatible with you and who will not let you go! Meanwhile, enjoy your freedom and have fun.

Good luck!

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A male reader, askJAY South Africa +, writes (17 December 2008):

askJAY agony auntWhat a dick he was. Sorry about that. You'll have to take nothing he said seriously, or you'll blame yourself and end up having a complex that ruins your future relationships.

be strong

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A female reader, wrhillgil United States +, writes (17 December 2008):

wrhillgil agony auntHe doesnt love you like he use to, its more of a like. The love faded. But i say that if you are really hurt from it take it in as it is. And as soon as you are over it get back at him and make him jelous as hell lol

Hit me back

~Hillary~

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