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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So, you guys probably hear this quite often, but I've been with my boyfriend for some time now (2 yrs) and he's recently met another girl whom he really likes hanging out with. He told me likes her and the only reason there isn't potential for them is that she only wants casual sex and I want a boyfriend. He basically wants us both. But I'm not having it and he knows this (and resents me for it). By his definition, he thinks he isn't cheating, but for me, it just bothers the hell out of me when he hangs out with her because I don't know what the hell they're doing for the HOURS they're together! He told me if I was more fun like I was in the beginning, then things would spark again, but right now, he's really into this other girl because she wants sex without strings and she has fun like all the time. In my eyes, the girl is a whore, but what can I do to spark things up again with my boyfriend? To be more 'fun'?I'm insanely desperate at this point and I want to know how I can win my boyfriend back!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): Why oh why would you even want to 'spark things up' with this lser of a boyfriend. Im sorry to say it love but he sounds like a real loser.
Maybe he has lost interest in you because you have no self respect left.
If I were you...and I so wish I was right now....I would call him imediatly and tell him that YOU have found someone better and that there is nothing more boring than a guy ho is never there.
Please please get some self respect!!!!
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