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*atiehenderson
writes:I have been in a relationship with a guy for 4 years. We fought often but also had alot of fun together. We had broken up once, but we got back cos it was difficult to live without each other. In this time that we had broken up, I had a rebound with a guy friend of mine whom I kissed thrice. When I got back with my guy, I didn't tell him about this as I was single at that time and hence unanswerable to him. A few months after we got back, I found out that he had been cheating on me, kissing other women, touching them in places, having online and sms sex chats, taking them on dates and even molesting one girl by pullin her to him and forcibly kissing her. He said he was very sorry and didn't want to lose me. He tried hard to make it up to me in a span of three months, did everything as I said, but as soon as he found out about my rebound, he accused me of "CHEATING." According to me, kissing another guy after BREAKIN UP is not cheating. He feels I am lying and I cheated cos there is no proof. Whereas I didn't. He says he wants to be with me but he still treats me very badly. Should I call off the relationship with him? Cos I am not at peace at all!
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reader, Claraw1  +, writes (29 August 2011):
 Firstly, you didn't cheat at all, you were broken up which means you could do anything you wanted and getting back together doesn't change that. I personally would break up with him, he is using this so he can go back to treating you badly, which is not ok at all. You deserve someone who will be faithful and treat you like the beautiful princess you are. At the end of the day though it is your decision. I wish you the best of luck with it.
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reader, HelpyMcHelperson  +, writes (29 August 2011):
I think you should call it off, you are right and you weren't cheating as the two of you were no longer in a relationship.
I think you should leave him because he doesn't show a willingness to trust you and because of how badly he is cheating you.
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