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He says I have a special place in his heart..what does that mean?

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Question - (9 May 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i have intense feelings for my close friend-we have the deepest conversations and get on amazingly well. he calls me 7/8 times a day and we're always on the phone for ages. i know i love him but cant ask if he feels the same way as hes told me hes dating someone casually however his friends have told me its not true. he says he trusts me and i know he likes me but i love him. do you think he has any feelings for me. he says he has a special place in his heart for me but what does this mean ? everytime im with him i just want him what shall i do

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (9 May 2010):

You're a friend. Nothing more. Sorry, but you need to move on.

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A male reader, Brunel Wallis and Futuna +, writes (9 May 2010):

Tell him to piss off and find someone in life that does want you. You flatter him and massage his ego at the moment?

Can't you see how he is using you?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2010):

he loves you as a friend, he values whatever emotional intimacy he has with you, but he is not in love with you.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (9 May 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntHe would not call you 7/8 times daily if he has no feelings for you . That's more like a person in love.

You have a special place in his heart, meant that he respects you and hold you in very high esteemed. Probably , he loves you inside of him and is unable to verbalize it yet.

Go with the flow and let nature takes its course.

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States + , writes (9 May 2010):

Fatherly Advice agony auntI may be missing a cultural context here. But if I said that it would mean that He loves you in a family way, not in a romantic way. That would also explain why he is trying to dissuade you from pursuing him. Sorry.


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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2010):

He is kindly and quietly trying to signal to you that he is not interested in a relationship with you. I recommend cutting ties with him gradually if you'd rather not let him in on why you cannot be around him anymore. Love doesn't fade when the person is still in your life, i can tell you that from experience. Do yourself a favor and let him go.

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