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He says he wouldn't marry a slut and then he calls me one!

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Question - (20 July 2015) 5 Answers - (Newest, 21 July 2015)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

What does it mean when a man says he loves sluts like the ones in porn but wouldn't want to marry one' anf then in arguments calls you a slut repeatedly

He later claims he didn't mean if and was just angry but I can't seem to get over this and don't really understand why I am

So incredibly hurt by it . Both that he seems to hold these women up as some sexual thing but also hates them and then he calls me that same things

I feel

Like such rubbish lately and am sure it's this relationship

that is effecting me

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2015):

This man sounds like a disrespectful pig. Why are you asking why he calls you a slut and not asking yourself why you're still with him...

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (20 July 2015):

janniepeg agony auntHe's verbally abusive. The word slut, has different meanings. It basically means anybody but Virgin Mary. Anybody but a woman who's long suffering, demure, and does not engage in arguments. In history men had exiled the perfect women out there, in the way way past but they had not learned how to deserve a good woman, even just a normal earthly woman. His standards in women mean nothing if he does not show himself to be a gentleman who speaks with wisdom, who has evolved out of the madonna whore complex. A man who has this complex has internal rage, because he wants something that he considers is bad for him, while he is not good enough for a decent woman. He is forever sexually frustrated due to this internal conflict.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (20 July 2015):

Honeypie agony auntHe likes the idea of "Lady in the streets and Freak in the sheets", but in reality his mindset is that woman shouldn't WANT to be sexual, they should just worship (him) and behave like little saints. He has a very immature and unrealistic view of women.

Honestly, he is an abusive misogynistic asshat - pure and simple.

I agree I would toss this one back in the pond. He is not a keeper.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (20 July 2015):

So_Very_Confused agony aunthe calls you names. that's abuse.

he's beating you up emotionally.

plan an exit from the relationship as soon as you can.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (20 July 2015):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntYou've got a handful of reasons to extricate yourself from this unrewarding relationship and get on with your life... So, follow them....

Good luck....

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